Gary, thankyou for your reply, and your experience sounds great!!! I didn't mean to sound so sad, I just was trying to get it all in in a short time! I am taking the advice of the first reply I had, James, I am setting an example for my kids I hope they see it that way, I am trying not to be judgemental or "preachy" I do invite them to come to church with me as often as the oportunity presents itself . It is much harder this way , I think, ? To turn them on to church, than if they had not been needlessly off to it! God is with me He will help me through this!! Thanks again, and God Bless you too!! DeeGee